One of the great lies that leads to affairs, "I married the wrong person." So and so at work or from high school or from church or from my temporary duty assignment is so much more like me.
But check this out. Such a wonderful penning of the ups and downs, highs and lows, gospel nature of marriage.
We married wrong.
Don’t buy what anybody else is selling: Everyone always marry wrong.
Because what’s wrong in the world is always us.
Marriage and love and time, these are the enormous forces that inevitably chisel and change us into strangers. The springs sag. Mattresses sigh. Marriage changes us into strangers who have to meet and introduce each other to love all over again.