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444/444 Healing from Infidelity: Transform Your Marriage

I like to see all those 4's. :)  

This page links to all 444 Days: Healing from Infidelity.

We embarked on this 444 day journey together in the darkness of winter, Jan 1, 2013. We've arrived at our destination as new life and Spring busts out, March 21, 2014   Much work over this meandering ride and much change and growth for which to be thankful. 

I said arrived, but we really haven't arrived anywhere. The destination is the journey and all that. The illusion of a never ending upward spiral of a life (arriving) is just a fantasy from American hubris. Life can be grand, but it will certainly be filled with pain too. Life is pain, Buttercup. That's a Princess Bride reference in case you haven't seen it. 

Where exactly have we been? Click on each Section Title to go to the first post in that section. 

The Journey

Our story, God's Story



Betrayal and Anger

Rebuilding Trust

Barriers to Intimacy

Emotional Affairs

Emotional Intimacy

Spiritual Intimacy

Non-sexual Physical Intimacy

Sexual Intimacy

Recreational Intimacy




So I've talked a lot for 444 days. I'm interested in what is going on for you. Where are you headed? Has anything been helpful to you with regards to these posts? Anything you are curious to learn more about? Are there places you disagree? What's going on in your life and/or marriage?

If you want some help along with the way we offer counseling in Longmont, CO, via phone or video chat. But the best thing you can do for your marriage is to come to Colorado and see us for a 4 day marriage intensive. It will send your marriage in a new, more hopeful direction.