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444/444 Healing from Infidelity

I like to see all those 4's. :)  

This page links to all 444 Days: Healing from Infidelity.

We embarked on this 444 day journey together the day after Labor Day in 2011. We've arrived at our destination the day after Thanksgiving in 2012. Fitting holidays really. Much work over this meandering ride and much change and growth for which to be thankful. 

I said arrived, but we really haven't arrived anywhere. The destination is the journey and all that. The illusion of a never ending upward spiral of a life (arriving) is just a fantasy from American hubris. Life can be grand, but it will certainly be filled with pain too. Life is pain, Buttercup. That's a Princess Bride reference in case you haven't seen it. 

Where exactly have we been? Click on each Section Title to go to the first post in that section. 

The Journey

Our story, God's Story



Betrayal and Anger

Rebuilding Trust

Barriers to Intimacy

Emotional Affairs

Emotional Intimacy

Spiritual Intimacy

Non-sexual Physical Intimacy

Sexual Intimacy

Recreational Intimacy




So I've talked a lot for 444 days. I'm interested in what is going on for you. Where are you headed? Has anything been helpful to you with regards to these posts? Anything you are curious to learn more about? Are there places you disagree? What's going on in your life and/or marriage?

If you want some help along with the way we offer counseling via phone or video chat for $75/hour. We also offer intensives from time to time. Check with us to find out more.