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238/444 Healing from Infidelity: Emotional Intimacy 15, Reveal Yourself

One of the ways to reveal who you are and how you became that way is to talk about yourself. Deep down, we all want to reveal who we are, and we all want to be known by someone who loves us and accepts us unconditionally. Take turns talking about YOU for 10 (or 20) minutes nonstop. Use the following topics as suggestions to get you started, or think of your own. (List adapted from Torn Asunder)

After the time is up, the Listening Spouse is to share 3 things that were revealed to him/her during this exercise.

My earliest set of memories

Grade by grade in elementary school

My happy childhood memories

My sad childhood memories

My birthdays – happy and unhappy

My favorite teacher and all of my memories about him/her

The first time I drove a car

My first car accident or traffic ticket

My first job

The favorite child in my family, why he/she was the favorite, how I felt about that, experiences and feelings I shared with him/her.

My favorite parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, cousin, sibling

All the houses I lived in; my craziest neighborhood friends

All the schools I attended

The longest walk I ever took

The ways I spent my allowance as a kid

My parents’ favorite sayings and how they used them; which ones I liked and didn’t like

The favorite year of my life

The year I would like to live over

The age I would like to remain forever

What I experienced when our children were born

The scariest things I have ever done

The craziest things I have ever done

What I experienced when my grandparent, parent, sibling, best friend, etc. died.

Any others you think of…