Ladies if I could give you one book to read about your man this is it. Shaunti Feldhahn has written For women only: what you need to know about the inner lives of men. She interviewed tons of men through open ended conversation and questionnaires.
I felt honored by her as a woman who sought to understand the battles men face in our internal worlds each and every day, each and every moment. So men, that makes it a good read for you too.
I had not read a book in many years that left me feeling, "I'm not crazy" until this one. She really pegged my inner world. There is much of what she pegged that previously had me feeling shame because I couldn't change it. She honored me in my struggle rather than telling me I shouldn't have that struggle. Thanks Shaunti.
I'd also like to find a similar book written by a man about women. Any suggestions?