Her third post on My New Name caught my eye. Here is how she starts it,
I'm holding a colander under cool running water in the sink.
The water is running through and down and around, but I can't figure out why.
Someone who is involved in sexual sin thinks that the colander won't leak. Even though I knew in my brain I was holding a bowl designed to leak I saw it as intact. I thought I could hold all the water in, but instead it just ran out all over the place. And I'd made a horrible devastating mess.