Affirming words for men who have been sexually abused are tough to find. I've seen them most often in books about men who struggle with sexual addiciton. Ronald Reagan's son wrote a book where he spoke of his childhood sexual abuse (which was a meaningful view into his inner world) but it was mixed in with political and societal commentary.
This article honors both a man who experienced childhood abuse and his wife, who penned the article. Thanks to Shonna Milliken Humphrey and her husband, Trav for their courage in speakout out.