I suppose I should have titled this Helps for Infidelity Recovery but maybe I made you look. :)
I came across this site by Judith Barnett with many links to help people through the chaos of infidelity.
So if you are in the middle of this upheaval in your life, I encourage you to give this Tar Heel lady a look.
On the small and meaningless Tar Heel trivia page of life, Tyler Hansbrough lived next door to me in Columbia, MO the first couple years of his life. His dad, Gene, was an NCAA champion high jumper at Mizzou and was attending medical school after his track and field days were over. They lived right next door to us on El Cortez.
Really didn't change your world, I know. But those links from Judith might.